If it were me, I'd be entertaining thoughts like "So what do they say about us gays when they think we're not around", in addition to whatever racial junk is being tossed about. Which would feel crappy. So, hugs.
In one case, when (incredibly!) straight dancers in a straight club didn't realize that I was gay (oh, get over it; there ARE people in the world clueless enough to not peg me as queer!), they were quite openly talking with each other about, YOU KNOW, THOSE PEOPLE.
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Date: 2012-04-21 02:51 am (UTC)