I have never sq danced in my life however similar situation can be found in almost all social events. I think it comes down to your personality. I would have no problem just telling the guy straight up that I wasn't comfortable dancing with him. And if he asked why, just say it doesn't matter why, thats just how I feel. I guess over time you can learn to be an asshole in a really nice way.
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Date: 2006-02-24 12:31 pm (UTC)