None of this is forced. You'll give as you feel inclined to and not out of some obligation.
Yes, "wrapping" is part of the experience, but consider how much of the effort is undone in literally seconds. People receiving a thoughtful gift are more likely to be touched by your thoughtfulness and while they might be impressed by the artfulness of the gorgeous paper, bows, etc. they'll be appreciating what you presented them with lots longer than the effect of the fancy packaging. Just a thought. Truthfully for me anyway seasonal gifts don't mean much to me anyway since my birthday (yesterday) is right on top of both Christmas and hanukkkkkah it all gets mooshed together anyway so generally it's a non-starter for me anyway.
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Date: 2008-12-28 08:28 pm (UTC)Yes, "wrapping" is part of the experience, but consider how much of the effort is undone in literally seconds. People receiving a thoughtful gift are more likely to be touched by your thoughtfulness and while they might be impressed by the artfulness of the gorgeous paper, bows, etc. they'll be appreciating what you presented them with lots longer than the effect of the fancy packaging. Just a thought. Truthfully for me anyway seasonal gifts don't mean much to me anyway since my birthday (yesterday) is right on top of both Christmas and hanukkkkkah it all gets mooshed together anyway so generally it's a non-starter for me anyway.