Jul. 16th, 2006

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Saturday was intentionally planned as a day of leisure & indulgence. I haven't had one of those in a while and I could really use one.

Alas, sleeping in wasn't an option but it was for the best of reasons. Our friend Jeff M. invited us to his home in Arlington, VA, for a lovely brunch: a fruit salad, souffle and breakfast sausages. Having someone else prepare breakfast for you is enough to persuade me to get out of bed before my regularly scheduled noon awakening.

Following brunch, Jeff & I dropped [livejournal.com profile] kent4str off for his monthly role-playing game in Seven Corners area of Fairfax County, then did what all good gay men do when the opportunity presented itself: we went shopping!

More precisely, Jeff is giving serious consideration to purchasing a car. He's never owned one --he prefers to rent if he needs one, and his various travelling friends usually leave a car in his trusty hands when they're out of town-- but he's giving it serious thought. [livejournal.com profile] zzbear had suggested looking at the Honda CRV so we tracked down a used 2004 model at a local Honda dealer for a test drive.

The verdict on the CRV was mixed. It's a nice drive, handles well and has great visibility and head & feet space with some cargo capacity. Still, it's an SUV if a small one: the gas mileage isn't great, only about 25 mpg. (IMHO, there is no earthly excuse why any pickup, SUV or car on the road today shouldn't get at least 40 mpg. Take note: when I become supreme dictator of the universe, there will be some immediate changes to the gas mileage standards.)

The usual mind games of the dealer attempting to close a sale were in full gear. I find it fascinating in an analytical way and love car purchasing negotiations, but the process annoys & tires Jeff very quickly. We left as soon as we could elegantly make a break for the door and thank them for their time & effort.

We made further stops at Home Depot, Crate & Barrel, the Container Store and the Apple Store in Clarington, VA, before returning to Jeff's place. He borrowed my car to tackle a couple more local errands while I vegged on his couch, reading back issue of National Geographic.

Towards 5:30 PM, [livejournal.com profile] kent4str rang me to summon his ride: gaming was over for another month. I collected him and we then headed to NW Washington to meet someone for dinner.

Tom Adkins of Columbus, OH, was recommended to us by our co-trailer trash, [livejournal.com profile] jearbear65oh & David. Jerry assured us we'd find him fun & delightful --and he was right-- and Tom was kind enough to allow us to take him out for dinner. After a lovely meal at a Mexican restaurant at 17th & R NW --under air conditioning, thank you great gods of freon-- we gave him a walking tour of 17th Street, Dupont Circle and Connecticut Avenue before arriving at Sweet Licks for dessert:


Kent, Tom & Brian Kent, Tom & Brian

Mmmm... bittersweet chocolate milkshakes.



We returned Tom safely to his b&b at 13th & R NW. After bidding him a sweet good night, we returned home to crash.
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Saturday was intentionally planned as a day of leisure & indulgence. I haven't had one of those in a while and I could really use one.

Alas, sleeping in wasn't an option but it was for the best of reasons. Our friend Jeff M. invited us to his home in Arlington, VA, for a lovely brunch: a fruit salad, souffle and breakfast sausages. Having someone else prepare breakfast for you is enough to persuade me to get out of bed before my regularly scheduled noon awakening.

Following brunch, Jeff & I dropped [livejournal.com profile] kent4str off for his monthly role-playing game in Seven Corners area of Fairfax County, then did what all good gay men do when the opportunity presented itself: we went shopping!

More precisely, Jeff is giving serious consideration to purchasing a car. He's never owned one --he prefers to rent if he needs one, and his various travelling friends usually leave a car in his trusty hands when they're out of town-- but he's giving it serious thought. [livejournal.com profile] zzbear had suggested looking at the Honda CRV so we tracked down a used 2004 model at a local Honda dealer for a test drive.

The verdict on the CRV was mixed. It's a nice drive, handles well and has great visibility and head & feet space with some cargo capacity. Still, it's an SUV if a small one: the gas mileage isn't great, only about 25 mpg. (IMHO, there is no earthly excuse why any pickup, SUV or car on the road today shouldn't get at least 40 mpg. Take note: when I become supreme dictator of the universe, there will be some immediate changes to the gas mileage standards.)

The usual mind games of the dealer attempting to close a sale were in full gear. I find it fascinating in an analytical way and love car purchasing negotiations, but the process annoys & tires Jeff very quickly. We left as soon as we could elegantly make a break for the door and thank them for their time & effort.

We made further stops at Home Depot, Crate & Barrel, the Container Store and the Apple Store in Clarington, VA, before returning to Jeff's place. He borrowed my car to tackle a couple more local errands while I vegged on his couch, reading back issue of National Geographic.

Towards 5:30 PM, [livejournal.com profile] kent4str rang me to summon his ride: gaming was over for another month. I collected him and we then headed to NW Washington to meet someone for dinner.

Tom Adkins of Columbus, OH, was recommended to us by our co-trailer trash, [livejournal.com profile] jearbear65oh & David. Jerry assured us we'd find him fun & delightful --and he was right-- and Tom was kind enough to allow us to take him out for dinner. After a lovely meal at a Mexican restaurant at 17th & R NW --under air conditioning, thank you great gods of freon-- we gave him a walking tour of 17th Street, Dupont Circle and Connecticut Avenue before arriving at Sweet Licks for dessert:


Kent, Tom & Brian Kent, Tom & Brian

Mmmm... bittersweet chocolate milkshakes.



We returned Tom safely to his b&b at 13th & R NW. After bidding him a sweet good night, we returned home to crash.
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I was in Crate & Barrel yesterday afternoon when co-trailer trash [livejournal.com profile] jearbear65oh calls my cell phone.

"Are you near a computer?" he asked.

"Um, nope. But there's some lovely pie plates to my left if you're interested."

"Maybe another time. When you get a chance, go to Bear411 and look up the profile of bear511."

"Why are you on Bear411 at 2:30 in the afternoon on a Saturday? Go outside and get some exercise. Come back to it at 2 AM like everyone else."

"Never mind why I'm on right now. Just go look as soon as you can." *click*

When Jeff and I returned to his place, we looked up the profile in question:
"Bear511 - San francisco | CALIFORNIA | USA
Hi! My Name is Mark. I am a Bottom.
I Can Speak: -English-"

Fine & unexceptional, except the photo is that of my dear husband, [livejournal.com profile] kent4str circa 1996. He's a little greyer now than he was then --10 years with me will do that to a person-- but that's him.

I'm so tempted to mess with Mark... "Great photo! Got any more? No? That's a shame, but hey look, I have photos of at our campsite! At our thanksgiving party! At our wedding!"

[livejournal.com profile] kent4str is still trying to decide if he's amused, angry or just annoyed. I'm choosing the amused option, but then again, it's not my photo. I wonder if anyone has ever used one of mine. And I wonder what this Mark actually looks like.
bjarvis: (Kent & Brian MAL 2006)
I was in Crate & Barrel yesterday afternoon when co-trailer trash [livejournal.com profile] jearbear65oh calls my cell phone.

"Are you near a computer?" he asked.

"Um, nope. But there's some lovely pie plates to my left if you're interested."

"Maybe another time. When you get a chance, go to Bear411 and look up the profile of bear511."

"Why are you on Bear411 at 2:30 in the afternoon on a Saturday? Go outside and get some exercise. Come back to it at 2 AM like everyone else."

"Never mind why I'm on right now. Just go look as soon as you can." *click*

When Jeff and I returned to his place, we looked up the profile in question:
"Bear511 - San francisco | CALIFORNIA | USA
Hi! My Name is Mark. I am a Bottom.
I Can Speak: -English-"

Fine & unexceptional, except the photo is that of my dear husband, [livejournal.com profile] kent4str circa 1996. He's a little greyer now than he was then --10 years with me will do that to a person-- but that's him.

I'm so tempted to mess with Mark... "Great photo! Got any more? No? That's a shame, but hey look, I have photos of at our campsite! At our thanksgiving party! At our wedding!"

[livejournal.com profile] kent4str is still trying to decide if he's amused, angry or just annoyed. I'm choosing the amused option, but then again, it's not my photo. I wonder if anyone has ever used one of mine. And I wonder what this Mark actually looks like.
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To our delight, Tom opted to spend the bulk of his day chez nous. To my delight, he & Kent indulged me on going ice skating near our home this afternoon.

Photos behind the cut. )

I'm giving serious thought to turning my 40th birthday next January into an ice skating party at the public arena. More thoughts on that later.
bjarvis: (Default)
To our delight, Tom opted to spend the bulk of his day chez nous. To my delight, he & Kent indulged me on going ice skating near our home this afternoon.

Photos behind the cut. )

I'm giving serious thought to turning my 40th birthday next January into an ice skating party at the public arena. More thoughts on that later.

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