bjarvis: (Kent & Brian MAL 2006)
bjarvis ([personal profile] bjarvis) wrote2006-02-15 10:39 am
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Post Valentine's

I'll be the second person to admit I'm not the most romantic person on the planet --I'm sure any one of the guys I've dated in the past would fall over themselves for the privilege of being first if they weren't so tired of me in the first place. But I digress.

Valentine's Day has been edging upwards in its utter irrelevancy to me for years, always competing with Christmas for the top spot. I think this year, VD has won out.

It's not that I don't love my dear fuzzball but I have a hard time co-ordinating a burst of loving adoration with the date on the calendar, especially when (a) the date is arbitrary, (b) the date is a work day/work night, and (c) our schedules are solidly packed.

Last night, we were calling the regular Baltimore Tuesday night square dance in lieu of Dayle. Our romantic Valentine's dinner? Stuffing our faces with pork-fried rice on the way out the door. Worse yet, Kent's been battling a stomach bug for the past couple of days; the cramping is unpredictable, occasionally painful and always uncomfortable. Rather than him having to risk running off the stage to the men's room at the most inopportune moment, we agreed early on that I would call the entire night.

Overall, the evening went very well. I did a vastly better job this time of employing the entire call list for each level rather than inadvertently blanking on portions while the mic was in my hand. I called some prepared A2 material which I was planning to use for my GCA calling slot at the ACDC event this coming weekend; while some figures were fine, others were a disaster. Part of this was an unfortunate mix of dancers --there was one body in each square who danced only Plus or hasn't danced A2 in many years-- so there was much stumbling, but no doubt at least two figures were technically legitimate but difficult in execution. I'll make some edits later today.

To top off our Hallmark-mandated romantic day, shortly after heading to bed, Kent began snoring. Loudly. I spent 1 AM onwards sleeping in the guestroom down the hall. Happy Valentine's.

[identity profile] rsc.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I like the fact that Valentine's Day fell on a Tuesday this year, because it meant we had an English dance and didn't even have to think about what we might do to celebrate (if we were inclined to pay the holiday any mind in the first place).

[identity profile] paigemom.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
ECD on Valentine's Day. Sounds like heaven!

[identity profile] paigemom.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
We had a 14-month-old that we thought was asleep screamingly interrupt our attempts at celebrating.

Happy VDay to you too :P

[identity profile] rsc.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, it was, despite having to call in expert help when the CD player wouldn't work (fortunately the "expert" happened to be just down the street having dinner, and his expertise consisted mostly in his suddenly remembering that there was another CD player in the church basement), and not having quite as many folks as we had hoped (which has been happening a lot lately). Christine calls lovely dances, many of them unfamiliar to me (the double-progression dance was a shade too unfamiliar to everyone present, but never mind that), and a good time was had by all.

And we got [livejournal.com profile] leafshimmer to dance!

[identity profile] lovesongman.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a very "exciting" Valentines Day! I would love to get into Square Dancing, but with my job and all the travelling I do, I would never be around for the lessons. Someday.... a lot to prepare for when ...and if... I retire. And ... snoring.... I can't sleep either once I hear someone doing it. My first lover snored horribly ...along with his miniature dachshund...they would rattle windows!

[identity profile] paigemom.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
AMAZING!!!

double-progession is tough for the beginner-intermediate crowd.

What CDs do you use? Bare Necessities?

[identity profile] dr-scott.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Scheduled days of celebration are annoying. We moved ours to Saturday, and could have postponed it if we hadn't felt up to it. Really, though, every day you both are happy and feel gratitude for your loved ones' existence should be an occasion for expressing it.

[identity profile] rsc.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
We use whatever CDs the caller happens to have brought (on those occasions when we don't have live music), and it's usually a mix of things, and I don't generally know what they are, although I believe Bare Necessities is often heavily represented.

This particular double-progression dance (it might have been The Betrayed Lover) was tough for this beginner-to-advanced crowd, in part because we had only 12 dancers, which meant that one changed back forth between being 1s and 2s frequently enough to prevent getting comfortable with either.

[identity profile] paigemom.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
ooo. Probably not a good choice for that level.

Scheduled days are retail bonanzas!

[identity profile] scshagger48.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Retail loves the scheduled days---of course, I guess that's good to a certain extent since supposedly it keeps our economy strong---but people in relationships shouldn't feel so obligated--in a way we let ourselves be maniputlated----I don't think love knows or cares about a schedule!

[identity profile] rsc.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
(As we continue to hijack Brian's journal)

I think our crowd could have handled it on a good night. I'd like to try it again sometime. (Maybe it should be reserved for a Fifth Tuesday.)

[identity profile] paigemom.livejournal.com 2006-02-15 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
He won't mind. I do this all the time :)